more than enough

Each Season Produces What is Needed for the Next

Each Season Produces What is Needed for the Next

Last year, I was really struggling in a season of continually pain, loss and grief. I turned to the seasons of nature to see if I could learn anything to help me thrive in the season I was in. Oh yes! ⁠

It Takes Courage to Rest and Play

👌🏻🙌🏻 Who else feels the stain to strive? And the pressure to go go go. But I’ve learnt the hard way that exhaustion DOES NOT prove your passion but that your priorities out of whack.⁠

I used to push till I had nothing left - to the point of getting shingles and then a few years later, adrenal fatigue 🤦‍♀️ (still struggling with this one).⁠

I was doing it from a place of passion and persistence, just wanting to make a difference in the lives of others...

BUT I wasn’t valuing myself.

I wasn’t seeing that for me to GIVE the best of me, I needed to BE the best of me - and that required REST and prioritising myself too.

There is no shame here.

We’re all figuring out how to give from a place of being full not empty.
And how to forge our own path, instead of following the destructive burnt out path of our culture.
Exhaustion is not something to strive for. It is NOT a badge of success.

Rest and fun are essential to living well. They were not meant to be added luxuries, but core building blocks to a healthy life.

👉🏻 How can you redefine what success looks like?

👉🏻 Are your priorities out of whack? How can you prioritize rest and play in your life?

👉🏻 Have you been neglecting yourself? Remember, we can’t give out of an empty bucket.

Let’s be courageous to go against the grain and live full lives marked with rest and play.

💜Ruth x

When You Have Nothing Left

When You Have Nothing Left

Feeling burnout, exhausted, unmotivated? You’re not alone. It’s normal, here’s why...
So many of us have just kept pushing through, until eventually, we run out of “surge capacity” - a series of adaptive systems we draw on for SHORT TERM SURVIVAL in acutely stressful situations, such as natural disasters.

This Season has Purpose

This Season has Purpose

A few lessons from the season of ❄️ winter...
1. GROWING CAN FEEL LIKE DYING - A seed has to die & be buried in the ground before it can begin again in spring. But things aren’t actually dead - beneath the surface, the roots are very much alive.

Your Worth is not What You Do

Your Worth is not What You Do

Your worth is NOT in what you do. You are valuable and worthy even if you never did another thing. You are allowed to rest. In fact, you cannot keep going without slowing down regularly. You don’t have endless resources, you need to pace yourself and refill. Taking to myself here.

The Grass Isn't Greener

The Grass Isn't Greener

Remember lovely, comparison steals what you already have, by wishing it was something else. Then you feel like you’ve got nothing - you don’t have what you’re wishing for and what you do have feels less then.

Being Our Own Cheerleader

Being Our Own Cheerleader

I know I have! Constantly criticizing, judging harshly, punishing, tearing down. How could we feel confident, when we keep beating ourselves up for being human. What if we were our greatest cheerleader - how different would we feel about ourselves??

Believe in You

Believe in You

We believe in YOU! But do you? Oh girl, I've been there. Thinking I didn't have what it takes, I wasn't enough, I've stuffed up too many times, I don't have what she has, I don't look like her, I've never done that before, I'm not worth it, no one sees me, what have I got to offer.