comparison

You don't have to have it all together

My friend Nicola said the other day to a group of us on zoom, “you don’t need to thrive right now, just survive. You don’t need to have it all sorted or tick all the boxes, this is all new and challenging and something we’ve never faced before, just take it one day at a time”.

I think sometimes we expect too much of ourselves - like we should know how to deal with something we’ve never faced before, or we should be doing this or not that or start this.

But I think now is the perfect time to really practice grace and kindness.

If you don’t have much capacity or motivation right now, you are not alone. Can I encourage you to give yourself permission not to strive for productivity and pivot, but pause, rest, retreat, refill, slow down. That is a totally valid and helpful response too.

Corona seems to be amplifying many people’s struggles, especially loneliness, fear, comparison, burn out, etc.

Let’s take it one day at a time. Add one extra step each day. We’re all figuring it out on the way.

We need kindness now more than ever - to each other AND ourselves.

👉🏻 What’s one way you can show kindness?

💜Ruth x

📸 @karma_collective

The Grass Isn't Greener

The Grass Isn't Greener

Remember lovely, comparison steals what you already have, by wishing it was something else. Then you feel like you’ve got nothing - you don’t have what you’re wishing for and what you do have feels less then.

Being Our Own Cheerleader

Being Our Own Cheerleader

I know I have! Constantly criticizing, judging harshly, punishing, tearing down. How could we feel confident, when we keep beating ourselves up for being human. What if we were our greatest cheerleader - how different would we feel about ourselves??

Believe in You

Believe in You

We believe in YOU! But do you? Oh girl, I've been there. Thinking I didn't have what it takes, I wasn't enough, I've stuffed up too many times, I don't have what she has, I don't look like her, I've never done that before, I'm not worth it, no one sees me, what have I got to offer.

Replacing Criticism with Compassion

Replacing Criticism with Compassion

I have a CONFESSION to make... I have been really struggling with how SELF-CRITICAL, condemning and harsh I am to myself. Saying things to myself that I would NEVER say to another person.

I am Perfectly Imperfect

I am Perfectly Imperfect

Whenever I see myself in a photo, my instant reaction is usually what’s wrong with it 🤦‍♀️🙅‍♀️. It’s like we’ve been programmed by our culture to expect one skewed version of perfection, nothing less.

Being the Director of Your Story

Being the Director of Your Story

“Wanting to be liked means being a supporting character in your own life, using the cues of the actors around you to determine your next line rather than your own script. It means that your self-worth will always be tied to what someone else thinks about you, forever out of your control.”

Being Yourself

Now that’s true beauty and that’s what the world needs – more of YOU! 🙌🏻 Be Brave. Be YOU. Be Free. Just be yourself – that is the most beautiful version you can be. ⠀

Start today with a fresh goal - today, I will be my self. In this moment, I will be myself - not what I think others want, but who I really am. ⠀

Daily steps of courage. Don't so be hard on yourself when you don't get it right. Learn. Grow. Keep stepping forward. This is a journey and a process.⠀

👉🏻 What is one thing you can do today, to be more true to yourself? ⠀

🙌🏻 Who could you encourage and celebrate their unique beauty? Be a part of their story to embracing who they really are. ⠀

💜Ruth x⠀

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Seeing the Beauty in Yourself

Seeing the Beauty in Yourself

Your beauty is unique and without comparison! Your mind is one of a kind. Your body is one of a kind. Your personality is one of a kind. You are one of a kind.

Spring Clean / Life Audit

Spring Clean / Life Audit

Haha, the struggle is real. But just like finding lost favourite bags and brand new tees we forgot about and all sorts of treasures amongst the trash... Our lives can be full of so many blessings and treasures, but sometimes are covered up in the mess. In the busyness of life, the stresses, the challenges, the heartbreaks, the ordinary.